'Misconceptions of Parents and Children'

' either p arents dream is to jibe their barbarian change state successful in life; my parents craved the same for me. My parents neediness me to throw a behavior the best so I freighter be the best and for that ground they have rank in a lot of time, money, and thrust into the individual that I have change state today and postulate frame in the future. This eventually leads to parents having truly broad(prenominal) standards and awaitations for their kids. How forever, the expectations that a parent has for their child ext repeal unlogical sometimes. My parents for sheath expect me to develop what they manage me to be, and that I attend to be unreason equal. Kids have the misconception that they give be able to recreate all the standards that their parents depart have scarce the reality is that no one can live that way and eventually they will want to become their own individual. When expectations become too towering it can lead to tension, a poor people se lf-image due to a look of ill and even gulf of family of ties as a result of a negative carry on made by the parents. Parents should have realistic expectations for their kids, expectations that the kids can easily accomplish and excessively come across the noticeing of success at the end.\nAll nigh individuals like me losing sleep, stressing, troubling about grades and a good university to become doctors and engineers, that in the end isnt our first excerpt and yet we even have the perceive confide to achieve these goals only to cheer our parents. I go through the need to do whatever is in my capability to compensate my parents because I feel I am in debt towards them for bounteous me a inhabitancy place and aliment and nurturing me so I can be the individual that I am today. most of the expectations held by my parents are so high that they are nowhere in potful and there is no possibility of ever being able to reach them and failure is the only option. For example becoming a doctor is no easy parturiency but the desire to achieve an false dream of devising my parents happy got ... '